Marin Marriage Club plans couples class

Create the marriage you’ve always wanted! Couples of all ages and stages are invited to attend the September 14, 2011 class. Gain skills to conduct a weekly Marriage Meeting that keeps your relationship on track. The meetings foster romance, intimacy, teamwork, and smoother conflict resolution.

The class meets 6:45 – 8:45 P.M. in the conference room at 1050 Northgate Drive, San Rafael, in office building across lot from Four Points Sheraton Hotel. Call 415-491-4801 to register and get free copy of ebook Marriage Meeting Starter Kit.  More information here.

I asked Timothy West, MFT, his thoughts on the subject because I’d been pondering aobut it for a while. It jars me when someone says “We got divorced because we grew apart.” I have my doubts about that. If a couple stays in touch emotionally, learns how to communicate effectively, have fun together, work as a team, and resolve conflicts smoothly, I don’t think the partners will grow apart. I think it’s more about staying committed to the relationship, which included learning what it takes to keep it healthy and applying the knowledge day by day.

I agree with Tim, who said, “They don’t grow apart. They fall asleep!”

What do you think?